Attracted to my Boss and Confused, Please Help!
April 1, 2014 12:54 PM
I know, I know. But I just can't stop thinking about him, and he seems to like me, too, even though I'm not what would be considered conventionally attractive. He even seems to be hinting at marriage (!), but I worry about some possible red flags. Snowflakes inside.
posted by JaneD’oh to Human Relations around (70 answers total) 51 users marked this as a favorite
he runs hot and cold, sometimes warm and affectionate, other times seeming chilly and aloof, and even flirting with other women; he may or may not be the biological baby-daddy to his adopted child (he dislikes talking about his past relationships, so it’s a bit of a mystery), and frequently disappears for days or weeks with no notice or explanation. Finally -- and this is going to sound crazy -- I think I hear occasional strange noises in his house at night ... like the muffled sound of a woman's voice screaming and ranting, which he brushes off as my imagination or "the help" making noise. Is this just me being paranoid? Am I sabotaging this budding relationship with my doubts and insecurities? I do love him, but just can't shake this nagging feeling that something's not right. Advice?